Small Like Me
A father looks for meaning in his child’s physical difference
By Magdalena Hernandez
Little People: Learning to See the World
Through My Daughter’s Eyes
by Dan Kennedy (Rodale Press; New York; 2003; 304 pages; $24.95)
In 1992, Dan Kennedy’s infant daughter, Becky,
was diagnosed with achondroplasia, a common type of dwarfism. Her
adult size, doctors predicted, would be approximately four feet
tall. Since Kennedy and his wife are both of average height, Becky’s
diagnosis, he says, was akin to “a personal visit from Ed McMahon
bearing a check with a dollar sign followed by lots of zeroes.”
Luckily, as Kennedy points out, our culture’s acceptance
of diversity is at an all-time high. And dwarfs seem to be more
visible among us—from Verne Troyer, who plays Mini-Me in the Austin
Powers franchise, to Michael J. Anderson’s role in last year’s HBO
series Carnivále.
But what does Becky’s difference really mean? That’s
the question Kennedy, LA’79, Boston Phoenix senior writer and media
critic, explores in Little People. Equal parts memoir and social
history, loosely organized by theme, the book chronicles the journey
Kennedy traveled from learning about his daughter’s dwarfism, to
accepting her condition, to becoming involved in the group Little
People of America.
The author puts a variety of faces on the topic.
We get biographical sketches of such historical figures as Charles
Stratton (a.k.a. Tom Thumb), the P. T. Barnum entertainer. We’re
also introduced to contemporary celebrities, such as the late Henry
J. Nasiff Jr.—more widely known to Howard Stern fans as Hank, the
Angry, Drunken Dwarf. And we meet professionals from outside the
show biz realm, who lead lives considered successful by any measure.
Today, Kennedy observes, “what was once stigma
is now identity.” Indeed, he helps us sort out the politics of dwarfism,
noting, “Most people never have the opportunity to assimilate dwarfs
into their consciousness the way they have assimilated, say, people
of different racial backgrounds. To them, dwarfs will always look
funny, or wrong, because they’re never going to see enough dwarfs
to register them as another type of normal.”
Toward such integration, we get a primer on terminology.
Although “little person” is widely employed within the community,
the phrase has been rejected by some dwarfs, especially the younger
generation, who tend to be more politically aware; they prefer “dwarf.”
“Midget,” a word coined during the freak-show era, is generally
considered derogatory. But just as other minorities take control
of slurs to defuse their power, Kennedy writes, “the dwarf community
may be slowly coming full circle, embracing ‘midget’ as a way of
lessening its sting.”
The author helps us understand that dwarfism, like
race, is a social construct. Dwarfs face challenges because mainstream
culture does not accommodate their needs. See, for instance, the
typical wall-mounted light switch or standard automatic teller machine,
both positioned at inaccessible heights for dwarfs.
Kennedy takes pains to underscore that the dwarf
community is not monolithic in its views. This is perhaps most evident
in his discussion of dwarf entertainers. Some argue the average-height
audience laughs at Mini-Me’s antics, not his condition. Others believe
dwarfs who are comic actors exploit their size for their own ends,
with the result that laughing at a dwarf—any dwarf—has become widely
acceptable.
Another polarizing topic is limb lengthening, an
excruciating procedure that helps dwarfs attain average height.
Bones are broken; limbs are placed in external frames, then gradually
stretched, allowing new bone tissue to form within the cracks.
Many dwarfs are against the procedure, on the grounds
that it suggests dwarfism is a “problem” that needs correcting.
And the ethics behind its use are troublesome: From a medical standpoint,
the optimal time to lengthen limbs is during the teen years—just
when a young person is most self-conscious and desperate to fit
in.
Elsewhere, Kennedy illuminates how disability rights
apply to dwarfs, explaining that they are simultaneously seen as
part of and not part of the disability community. We also glimpse
a darker side to modern attitudes. Despite society’s widening embrace
of diversity, Kennedy notes, as we strive to perfect ourselves physically—witness
the popularity of breast implants and penis enlargement—we may actually
be taking a step back from pluralism.
And science may be helping us make dwarfism more
rare. In 1994, the mutation that causes achondroplasia was discovered
by a group of scientists led by geneticist John Wasmuth. If parents
choose to terminate pregnancies after learning a fetus carries the
gene, achondroplasia could one day disappear. Even more troubling,
Kennedy wonders whether insurance companies might pressure parents
into aborting fetuses that will be born dwarfs, or simply refuse
to cover fetuses diagnosed with expensive genetic conditions.
Such thought-provoking questions are happily plentiful
in the book. Kennedy writes candidly and with introspection about
his daughter’s condition. And he avoids the trap of using dwarfism
as a symbol. This book might easily have become a meditation on
“difference” and “the other.” After all, we have a tendency to apply
significance to the outsider’s condition.
But, for dwarfs and their families, the condition
is simply a fact of life. As Kennedy observes about Michael Ain,
a doctor who chooses not to be defined by his dwarfism, “to elevate
Ain because of his genetic difference is as dehumanizing, in a way,
as it would be to denigrate him for it.”
One warning: Readers who, on the basis of the book’s
subtitle, expect to get a glimpse of the world through Becky’s eyes
will find only a few such examples. In one of the most affecting
passages, Kennedy asks his daughter how she feels about being a
dwarf. On the cusp of adolescence and possessed of a healthy self-esteem,
she nonetheless has a child’s raw awareness about the drawbacks
of not being of average height.
For instance, she says, when she has children,
they will be sad “because they won’t be able to reach stuff . .
. and they won’t be able to go on big rides that they like.” Kennedy
hears in his daughter’s comments her “unhappiness about being a
dwarf, an unhappiness that she already assumes she will pass on
to her children.” As fascinating as this book can be, we’re left
wishing we had a greater share of Becky’s viewpoint.
But this is a minor quibble. Little People is a
well-researched overview of dwarfism, told through the sharp prism
of one family’s story.
Magdalena Hernandez is a senior editor.
Stealing
Dreams: A Fertility Clinic Scandal
by Mary Dodge and Gilbert Geis; Northeastern University Press; 2003
In 1995, fertility specialists at a California
clinic were discovered to be taking women’s eggs and implanting
them in others—without the consent of the donors. Stealing Dreams
effectively re-creates the events surrounding this infamous case
of egg theft and insurance fraud.
Beyond exploring the circumstances that led to
the crime, the book delves into the motivations of the key players—including
the doctors, the lawyers, the claimants, and the media. The authors
also shed light on the complex issues surrounding the relatively
new field of reproductive medicine.
The
Oath: A Surgeon Under Fire
by Khassan Baiev with Ruth and Nicholas Daniloff; Walker & Company;
2003
Clearly, this book shows, some doctors take the
Hippocratic oath more seriously than others.
Khassan Baiev was one of the few surgeons to remain
in Chechnya during two Russian invasions in the 1990s. In his memoir—cowritten
with journalism professor Nicholas Daniloff, former Moscow bureau
chief for U.S. News & World Report, and Daniloff’s wife, Ruth—Baiev
shares his heroic tale of treating thousands of Chechen and Russian
civilians and soldiers under appalling wartime conditions.
American readers will come away with a more nuanced
view of the demonized Chechens. And this absorbing account truly
shines when Baiev recounts the wonders he performed as a doctor
treating casualties on both sides of the bloody conflict.
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